April, ahhhh, so many birthdays.
We have Layla, Will, Maggie, Seattle Great Grandma, Joni, Jon's Dad, Buster.
What a busy month.
Then May comes along.
Another busy month. I'll let you know more about that in May.
Also, this month was a horse clinic. Natural horsemanship. Fell apart because, Cookee, our princess horse, decided to not load in a trailer. She's loaded before with no problem.
Who can tell about horses.
I am very depressed. Looked forward to this clinic for a couple months. Way too many questions as to if we could actually get there.
Thursday, found out Honey Hubby would be able to get off work to go. Yeah!!!
Then, Cookee, our princess, wouldn't load in the trailer. Why not?!!!!
She's been in a trailer before. Loaded right up. No questions, just followed me in.
Who knows about horses?
I sure don't.
With all Hubby Honey and I have tried to learn over the past couple years about Natural Horsemanship we really thought we had the answers.
"Pride gowith before a fall."
Okay, we have now had our fall. Definitely bruised egos.
Goldee, the mustang mare, loaded so easily. We never would have thought Cookee would have been our problem. Bear, yes. But, not Cookee.
Back to square one.
Back to the beginning.
Back to where the foundation got screwed up.
It's okay. Cookee is a very intelligent horse. We did something wrong, not Cookee.
One more lesson in Natural Horsemanship from the horses of High Desert Way Ranch.
More challenge, more learning, for us, the people. I love it!
More later.
Worked with Goldee in each of the last three days. Really wanted to today also, but it is very windy here today. I try to always work a horse at least four days in a row before a break. This time of year here in northern Nevada that isn't alway possible.
I am continuing to pet and rub her on the face and cheeks. Yesterday she actually let me walk up to her and rub on her face. Before she has always moved her head to the side so I couldn't touch her. I would say that is definitely progress.
I again used a lot of approach and retreat with her. I would touch or rub her face or nose once before walking away. She seemed very calm. Good! This is the same approach I used in touching and brushing her shoulder and neck. Again, I tried to be sure to stop and leave before she did. A horse learns not from what you are doing, but from when you stop doing what you are doing. You taking the pressure off is their reward for doing what you wanted.
Also yesterday, when I was cleaning the round pen, it took her about half the time it had day before to venture into the round pen to investigate the items I had placed there. Then she let me be closer to her while cleaning, and stayed longer to sniff the manure fork.
When it was time to start working with her yesterday, she was calmer than on Monday. By the time we were done on Monday, she was a sweaty mess. Yesterday, with me using the same methods, Goldee wasn't sweaty at all.
So what methods did I use?
In teaching her I am the leader, the alpha, I get her feet to move. I use the Parelli method of asking the horse to move, let's say to the left. In the refined stage of this request the horse should be facing you. But in the beginning stage, we just want the horse to move it's feet, hopefully in the direction we ask. I quietly lift my left hand, pointing in the direction the horse should go. If the horse doesn't move, with a lunge whip or stick and string in my right hand, I raise that, pointing in the opposite direction I want the horse to go. Once again, this is a quiet movement, not rushed or driving the horse.
If the horse still doesn't move, gently swing the whip or string on the stick towards the horse's left shoulder in a very rhythmical motion. If the horse doesn't move within three taps on the ground with the whip or string, tap the horse on the shoulder encouraging it to move. At this point, most horses will move. If you have one that just won't move, I do have one that wouldn't in the beginning, look for even just the slightest lean or head movement in the direction you want the horse to go. Then lower both your hands and arms and put them in a relaxed position at your side. Give the horse a few to let things soak, then start again.
Goldee did move. Only in the opposite direction I was asking for. In the beginning, I really don't care. She moved. We can refine later. So now she is moving around me to the right. Instantly I drop both my hands and arms into a relaxed position at my sides. I have taken the pressure off to let Goldee know she did the right thing. She is bouncing and jumping all over the place, and then tearing around the pen. My intent here is not to teach the horse to just run. A horse can run for a very long time. And when it is running like she was running, she had gone right-brained. To the prey animal side. We want to keep our horse away from that side of the brain. So instead of just letting her run and run, because she is definitely not in a learning mode here, I suggest to her she stops. I do this by cutting her off. Okay if you have a horse that is just running at this point and not even aware you are in the pen, just wait until they start coming down a little.
If the horse is running and unaware of you, you could easily get run over or kicked when the horse decides to turn at the last second. So BE CAREFUL!
Once she has calmed down some, I manage to get her turned. I move back to the center of the pen. Once again I totally relax with my hands and arms at my sides.
If you have a horse who just won't stop running out of control, you need to find a way to get it slowed down and then turned. I have one of these. The same one who at first wouldn't move. Another extreme horse. That is another story.
Back to Goldee.
Luckily, she did turn. Once she stopped her head throwing and bouncing around, before she could really start just running again, I cut her off and made her turn again. Each time they have to turn, for just an instant, they actually have to go to the thinking side of their brain. So the more you can get them to turn, the more they have to think. Then the trick is to get the horse to finally stop in the middle of the turn and face you.
That will be our next lesson.